I think that we should tell students that they’re smart, compliment their work ethic, AND encourage creativity. When some people say that a student is “smart”, they’re genuinely trying to compliment the student when other times, they’re just saying it to say it. We should encourage a strong work ethic, because if a student is struggling, they should be working hard to understand the concept of the standards they’re learning, as to where some of the smarter kids don’t have to work as hard. We should encourage creativity because creativity is a whole other category of truly seeing how smart a student is. By telling a student they’re smart, complimenting students work ethic, and encouraging creativity, you’re boosting the students self-esteem, which some people truly need. – Alia
I think we should complement kids that we are “smart” and for their work ethic and creativity. This is because especially in our school people around the school tells us basically that we are not smart and we never feel as if we do not do good enough for them no matter how hard we try. It brings my self esteem down and makes me feel like no matter how hard I try. I feel as if we should complement students for all good they do and to show them how we appreciate them because if we don’t then they feel as if they shouldn’t even strive for greatness. -Allena
The argument that we should not tell children that they are smart is ridiculous. Why should we degraded a child’s intelligence just to make another kid feel better? Taking away the label smart would not boost the confidence of children but simply diminish it. Creativity and work ethic are not even remotely the same thing as intelligence. By saying that you have a good work ethic or that you are creative but not smart you are essentially saying that those things are mutually exclusive when they can actually go together. -Audrey
I think that we should tell students that understand the topics, get good grade, and are good students that they are “smart” but if students are falling behind, don’t get the best scores, but are a good students that we shouldn’t call them “not-smart.” There is a fine line between what we call a “smart” student and a “not-smart” student. Yes we should compliment their work, and encourage them to do better but telling them that they aren’t smart either explicitly or implicitly isn’t the way to go. Teachers can help the students that are falling behind and aren’t doing the best but we shouldn’t classify or label them because of them not understanding a certain topic. A student may not understand a subject like fractions, do bad on the test, and their grade go down and then they get called “not-smart” because of it. Teachers should be encouraging students, rather than dragging them down and putting labels on students.- Campbell
No, we should not tell children that they are ¨smart¨ or ¨intelligent¨ because this can create a superiority complex among that child and another child. -Colin
I don’t really think we should compliment their work ethic or creativity of students because if they work hard they may not be learning or getting to know the content and telling students that their doing a good job of working hard may just tell the student that its okay to not know but all it matters is to try which its really not since you can try all you want and still fail. -David
Complimenting their work ethic or creativity will only get them so far. Not all jobs accept people who work hard or creativity. I say, we compliment a little bit of both because this will help them feel smart and creative. These two things go hand-to-hand in careers and will help the child’s self esteem and work ethic. So, if we compliment them on both work ethic, creative, and smartness. -Eli
Personally, I believe that telling children they’re smart is a confidence booster and is not a bad thing. Although, in certain situations, I don’t think it’s appropriate. For example, in a classroom, I don’t think it’s ok to tell one student their smart and not the others. It simply makes the other students feel less than. But, I don’t believe that telling a student they are smart or naturally gifted is a horrid or awful thing that we should avoid. In conclusion, I believe telling children they are smart is an awful thing except for certain situations.- Ella
I agree with this statement because nobody is actually smarter than the next. Honestly, everyone just has a different way that their mind works. Different people have different amounts of creativity, strategy, and more. You can work really hard and get the answers wrong. It really doesn’t matter because we all have human brains.-Emmy
I think that we should tell them that they are smart but also we should also compliment their other good traits. But we should also only call them these things in a positive connotation. -Jack
We should not tell children they are “smart” because they and other children will take it to heart. imagine your teacher or parent telling another sibling or student the they are “smart” , but not you. the problem of the idea of intelligence is that it’s rooted in one central scale or system. every person is different, therefore intelligence is not measured by a central scale, but by a differentiating mess of individualized scales. so why do we compliment children on one standardized scale of intelligence? We could be complimenting them individually on their own work ethic, creativity, and effort. -Jake
I think it is okay for certain people to tell children they are smart. I think if parents or family member are complimenting children it is okay and will build their self-esteem. However if teachers compliment some children on this but not others, they may get offended and then not try on what they do in class. -Jaleia
I agree because many compliments that call someone “smart” are backhanded and condescending, however, I think that complimenting a child on their intelligence is justified. Moreover, I don’t think that teachers should compliment kids on being smart because its rude for them to say around other students because it creates a “the smart kid” mindset in the other kids. Also, it could undermine the success of another students by making them feel like the teacher has low expectations for them.- Katie
I think that we can tell children they’re smart, but we should still compliment on what they’re doing well. I also think that if there’s a kid who’s not smart, you shouldn’t tell them that, instead you should compliment them. I think that we should implement both instead of one or the other. -Khloe
I think that being smart in based on work ethic and by saying someone is smart you are complimenting their work ethic. but then again a lot of people use the word smart as another way to say know it all. This is a es and no answer depending on how the word is used it can be meant as a compliment or it can be meant as an insult.-Kylee
I believe it depends on the kid. For instance, I am what people would call “smart” and I have creativity to my work, but I don’t work hard to get 100%s on my test. To me, getting called smart is a regular thing, but to other people, it serves as a compliment and I don’t believe we should take that away from them. I believe that we should just use both. It took me time to get as this and I worked hard to do so. I have a little bit of a work ethic and I think that’s good but I don’t always have a good one, so I think you should be allowed to call people smart and compliment their work ethic. -Lucy
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I feel like we should compliment kids on their work ethic and creativity, because I personally see that more of compliment than being called smart. I rather have a good work ethic and be complimented on that, instead of being smart because I feel the constant urge to work very hard when hearing that, which I feel is important. Having a good work ethic can get you way farther in life than smartness can, because people want to hire someone with a good work ethic. -Makiya
I think that we should compliment people on on a little bit of both. This is because some people could have an incredible work ethic but they are not that smart. In this situation we should compliment them on how hard they work. Also, someone may be extremely smart but they barely work hard. In this, we should compliment them on their intelligence. -Margaret
I think that we should tell children that they are both smart and their work ethic is good. If we do not tell the kid that they are smart then they are let down about their intelligence. -Preston
I think that when we tell our kids that they are smart we set them up for social failure. I have one friend who was constantly bragging about how “smart” she was, because her mother was constantly reaffirming her and telling her how “smart” she was. Since I was homeschooled for a vast majority or my life, I never realized exactly how ahead of my peers I was. In fact, sometimes I was kept purposefully unaware of how ahead I was. However, that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t compliment students for scoring high or working hard, but we can’t let it go to their heads. That’s one of the issues with gifted education, students begin to think that they are so special, but that’s not the problem. The problem is when students begin to brag about it to other students. -Rebecca
I believe that we should tell children that they are smart. A lot of gifted children feel left out in the classroom and by saying that they are not smart and that they just worked hard to get where they are just gives them low self-esteem. And children who get bad grades get compliments all the time that they are working hard. It’s not fair that children who don’t work hard and still get a good grade then the teachers just say “there is no such thing as being smart, you get there by working hard.” That just is telling children that they are not smart. But children who work hard to get grades, they do deserve half of the compliments, not all of them, which is how it works at our school. But then people call gifted or advanced children that they are smart but use in a hateful tone. For example, “of course the smart kids are raising their hands.” -Sam
I think it is better to compliment work ethic and creativity because there are only so many people seen as smart, so complimenting the other aspects is better. Sometimes when people say someone is smart, they don’t really mean it. Most of the time it is more of a label type of thing. Like the “smart kids” and sayings like “stop being too smart.” Not everyone is labeled smart but I feel what really counts is the work ethic and creativity. -Sawyier
I think that complimenting about work ethic and creativity is better than saying that kids/students are smart because hard work ethic can lead to being smart by hard work. -Vance
You should tell kids that they are smart, if the actually are. It’s the same thing as complimenting someone’s work ethic, they worked to get where they are and they should feel good about their achievements. You never tell a great artist that they aren’t a good artist, you praise them for their hard work. Sure the term smart can be used in a derogatory way but so can most other words. -Will